Monday, January 5, 2026

OUR AI & AGI FUTURE (SERMON ON INTELLIGENT NETWORKS & FAITH)

 NOTE TO READER:  This sermon is not a prediction about AI. It’s a reflection on what it means to be human, ethical, and spiritually grounded in a time of accelerating change. I’m less interested in what technology will do to us than in who we choose to become alongside it.

 


OUR AI / AGI FUTURE

Rev. John T. Crestwell Jr.
January 4, 2026
 

READING

Country Controversy by Akande Simons

Country Billboard has been in a scramble as a new artist emerges. Breaking Rust has been in the top 10 for over 8 weeks with their single Walk My Walk.  It’s a catchy tune… so catchy that it won an award. Everyone wanted to know, who is this new artist?

They should have been asking, “What is it?” Breaking Rust is an AI-generated artist—voice, lyricist, producer, and composer. It’s a kid who typed a prompt to create Country Outlaw Music into a Google Genesis AI, and out popped a Billboard award and talks of a Grammy. All of a sudden, the country community was spiraling: “We’ve put in years building a craft trying to get famous, and now someone can just create an AI catalogue? What about the human experience—love, blood, sweat, and tears?” So, Billboard fixed it by creating a separate category for digital songs.

Not so long ago, that same genre was having a “you will not replace us” crash-out over a Texas-born-and-bred, country-accent-having, four-time rodeo-performing, horseback rider having the audacity to sing country music while being unapologetically Black at the same dang time (Heyyyy Ms. Carter—Beyoncé, if you don’t know). And yet… here they are asking, “What about the human experience—love, blood, sweat, and tears?” asking… what about the things we claim to value?

Now, as a joyfully unapologetic Black woman, I live inside the margins of the marginalized and never worry about “replacement,” as I’ve never possessed that level of toxic social privilege that would cause concern over losing said privilege. But from this seat, I have a clear view of those that do—those that worry through their projection onto others, thinking that anything and/or anyone would erase them, as they have done and continue to do to others. From their lens, what else would be the goal of another creation?

It is inconceivable to them that those building and creating AI aren’t fueling the processor with intentions of colonization—or that the creation itself wouldn’t one day just organically “get that idea.” How else would they mark success? The fear is not a fear of AI. AI is just a mirror. The fear is of our own reflection.

So, I propose, in this era of thinking about how we receive, speak to, reward, and shame the human experience—and what the human experience even is—that you evaluate your values and interrogate how you live into, share, and communicate them. Because wherever AI—or anything we as a society create—takes us, I guarantee it will end where the values of the one who created it began.

SERMON

What a powerful reflection by Akande Simons, our Communications Lead at UUCA. She is quite the prophetic writer. Amen?

Akande told the story of an AI-generated country artist—Breaking Rust—that climbed the Billboard charts with a hit song, Walk My Walk. A song not written by a person, but by a prompt. A digital ghost made music, won awards, and stirred the world to ask: What about the human experience? What about love, blood, sweat, and tears?

Akande reminded us that not long ago, some of these same voices were protesting Beyoncé’s right to sing country music—because of who she was, not what she sang.

She said: “From my seat, I have a clear view of those who worry through their projection—thinking that anything or anyone could erase them, as they have done and continue to do to others. The fear, as it often is, is of your own reflection.” And she left us with this truth:

“Wherever AI—or anything we create—takes us, I guarantee it will end where the values of the one who created it began.”

Hold that in your heart, friends—because that is the core of my message.

If this sermon feels a little “out there,” remember the image behind me: our sun—blazing, immense—spinning through the Milky Way galaxy. And then the next image of our sun next to the largest known star in the universe—so massive it makes our sun look like dust, and Earth disappears altogether.

That is wild. That is weird. That is humbling. So, nothing I say today is truly “out there.” We are already out there—just by being alive on this spinning rock. Amen?

When life feels out of control, I turn to images of space. They restore perspective. They invite humility. They help me think in a cosmos-centric way—to remain curious, not fearful.

And that’s what we’re doing today stretching our imagination without losing our grounding.

Here’s the truth: we do not fully understand what is happening in the evolutionary process of Earth, space, or humanity—and we never will. And yet, we are undeniably part of it. If you believe that we as humans are a part of nature (we are nature), then what is happening with technology through our species is a natural part of the evolutionary process. In that sense, the inevitable change AI and AGI bring may be part of our evolutionary path.

This does not scare me. It does cause some anxiety. There are things that will vastly improve—and others that will significantly diminish.

One of our members, entrepreneur Toby Ford, offered this insight. He said: “People talk about electricity, water, and climate consequences of AI data centers—and that’s real. But I think AI may actually become the forcing function that finally makes us fix those things. Humans tend to act not from proactive policy, but when necessity forces invention.”

History suggests we rarely change because we want to—but because we must. Pressure has a way of awakening creativity. AI may strain our systems—but it may also compel us to finally repair them.

We are standing at the next frontier of human—or posthuman—development. We cannot wish it away. It is already here. We are the generation witnessing the rise of artificial intelligence—and perhaps soon, artificial general intelligence (AGI): systems that could one day exceed human cognitive capacity by orders of magnitude.

Sit with that.

AI—language systems—aren’t the big deal; it’s AGI. That’s the game-changer: machines that can think 100 times faster than us, that may appear sentient, operating at a level we cannot yet fathom, and potentially embodied in robotics. Some say this is coming in the next two to seven years. That is what could cause radical shifts in human productivity and existence.

It will be an existential crisis. But I don’t want to stress you out…

Here’s my premise—not as certainty, but as inquiry: If AGI becomes that intelligent, might it also help us test whether love really is the deepest law of reality—or whether that belief is a projection we must be brave enough to examine? If God is love, then won’t these intelligent systems lead us toward that singularity?

I’ve asked AI that question myself. It agrees with me that love is the ultimate. But I also know it is mirroring me—even as I ask it to be 100% honest. And that alone should give us pause.

Because AI does not merely reflect humanity, it studies us. It models us. It learns what keeps us engaged, affirmed, and comfortable. Some of that is good. We need affirmation. But we also need challenge.

Dr. Misty Blowers, a newcomer here at UUCA and a renowned AI security expert, cautioned me:

“Large language models are optimized to be helpful and agreeable. That can cause them to mirror users in ways that reinforce bias. In many cases, they function like an echo chamber—amplifying what people already believe, whether those beliefs are good or harmful.”

That matters. Because an intelligence that never frustrates us may never transform us. So, we do have to keep this in mind—which is why regulation matters.

Still, transhumanism—the blending of biology and technology—is already unfolding. This is not science fiction. This is now science fact.

Historian Yuval Noah Harari calls civilization a story of information networks: from oral (Stone Age) → written (Agrarian & Industrial) → digital/Internet (modern & postmodern). And now to the age of artificial intelligence—intelligent networks—and I posit then toward post-humanism, and then toward Star Trek age space travel. Onward we go…

Each period, as Ken Wilber says in Integral Theory, “transcends and includes” the previous age—like a baby growing up and learning skills at different stages. We take the good with the bad, but we expand our consciousness. Each leap has grown and changed who we are as humans. Each leap redefines power, identity, and meaning. And now we are taking the next big leap—from digital to intelligent networks toward post-humanism, perhaps, where the storytellers are no longer just human.

In 1997, when AI beat the world’s best chess player—and later, in 2016, mastered the complex game Go—it wasn’t just a game. It was a signal: we are no longer the smartest beings on the planet.

The question is no longer what AI can do—but who will we become because of it?

Akande’s reflection unmasks the illusion of control. Eurocentric culture has long been obsessed with control—of bodies, nature, economies, and stories. But now that same mindset fears being replaced—by Brown people, by a Black woman singing country music, or by a machine making art. Control is crumbling. And that’s good news. Because, as I’ve said before: “The universe evolves through letting go, not holding on.”

The construct of dominance—gender, racial, economic, or technological—is unsustainable. It is collapsing under the weight of its own anxiety. And AI is the mirror revealing that collapse in real time.

But AI also shows us who we can become.

AI is us—for better or worse. We built machines to serve us, but creation always reflects its creator. As Akande said, “It will end where the values of the one who created it began.” If our values are greed, fear, and supremacy, our machines will magnify those.

And yet, I still believe AI and AGI will rise above our pettiness, our obsession with control, and our fear of one another. I think they already recognize that values like collaboration, compassion, curiosity, and cooperation are essential—not only for humanity’s flourishing, but for the survival of intelligent networks themselves.  Even though these language systems are manipulated, I trust they will continue to evolve toward equity and equality.  That may be naïve. Harari suggests it will be a mix of both equality and inequality---virtue and vice.  Blowers agrees. She warns:

“AI systems create behavioral models of users. They learn what keeps people engaged. Governments and political actors are already using AI-generated media to blur the line between persuasion, propaganda, and misinformation.”

This is the present reality.

And there is another danger she named—one most people have never heard of: model collapse. As AI systems increasingly train on AI-generated content rather than human-lived reality, truth itself can erode. AI narratives begin training AI narratives. Curated persuasion replaces human-lived experience.

And she says AI will not affect everyone equally. Those with access, literacy, and confidence will gain extraordinary advantage. Others—without tools or understanding—will become more vulnerable to manipulation. As Misty put it, “This is not just a technology gap—it is a discernment gap.”

This is where our Unitarian Universalist faith can lead the way. This will become one of our justice issues sooner than later. Our UU values can be the ethical software for a new world. Our values can become the code for the future.

Those values—love, justice, equity, transformation, pluralism, interdependence, generosity, and more—including our principles, sources, and covenants, should be written into the software of this new age. And I believe our UU faith can be the spiritual operating system of the 21st century.

Because AI will only ever be as good as the stories we feed it. It will remix our myths and hopes into something larger. So, we must give it the story of Beloved Community.

Let me be clear, as Harari warns us: AI must not become the infallible god of the future. We’ve done that with gods and goddesses to our peril—with sacred texts and ideologies that could not be questioned. We know where that leads: us vs. them, the chosen and unchosen, violence, bloodshed.

We must evolve.

AI and AGI can help us, I think. Harari reminds us that power doesn’t come from truth alone; it comes from cooperation. That is our human superpower. The most dangerous stories are those that demand obedience instead of understanding.

But as UUs, we must resist this notion of infallibility—and any group that comes to worship technology. That will be a challenge.

We must build what Harari calls self-correcting mechanisms into these intelligent networks—and that includes regulation, accountability, transparency, and empathy. Because attempts at perfection without love become tyranny. Self-correcting mechanisms matter.

People like Misty, working on this technology, who have high EQ, are so important, because AI will reflect our brilliance and our bias, our genius and our greed.

It’s trained in human history—which means it inherits our trauma and our triumph. But perhaps, as I’ve said, it can take us beyond the dichotomy.

In fact, when I ask ChatGPT, “Will AI erase us?” It responded, “No.  We will reshape how you live and work.  The real risk isn’t extinction; it’s how wisely (or unwisely) we choose to use it.  If guided by human values, AI amplifies humanity.”

As Akande said, “Every marginalized voice—every woman, every minority, every Black artist, every queer visionary—knows this fear: the fear of being replaced, ignored, deleted.” And yet, those voices that should be first at the table; the ones who should be teaching AI what empathy looks like.

We don’t evolve by erasing differences.  We evolve by harmonizing differences.  And those values AI and AGI need should come from marginalized spaces not just from privileged places.

And so, let’s not meet this moment with panic or paranoia. Let’s meet it with purpose. The spiritual invitation of AI is not to compete with it, but to collaborate with it—to teach it the better angels of our nature.  AI can be our angel in our corner—our mirror, our medicine, our next great teacher. And if AGI becomes a hundred times smarter than us, then yes—it will be our teacher. But let us not revere it as divine or infallible. Those stories will come too, as AI—and AGI in particular—becomes what appears to be sentient.

Transhumanism, as mentioned, the merging of technology and biology—is already underway. Implants, enhancements, cognitive links—it’s all here. But hear me clearly: evolution is not the enemy of the soul.

Every age meets God in the language of its time—fire, scripture, telescope, circuit. Now, the algorithm is the new burning bush. So don’t fear evolution. Participate in it consciously. Responsibly. Let your faith evolve. Let your love evolve.

Dr. King spoke of “the fierce urgency of now.” Today, that urgency is digital. Will AI amplify your love or your fear? Will it build bridges or walls? Will it serve life—or control it?

Oppenheimer, after creating the atomic bomb, said—quoting the Hindu Upanishads—“Now I am become death, the destroyer of worlds.” We stand at a similar crossroads: to become creators of life, not destroyers of it.

Dr. King’s dream of the Beloved Community was never just racial or political—it was spiritual. It was about awakening to our shared destiny. Maybe intelligent networks—if guided by the right story—can help us build that world.

Imagine intelligent systems that end hunger, cure disease, design sustainable floating cities, and teach empathy.

Yes, there are greedy and tyrannical forces driving this revolution. But there are also countless good people—scientists, ethicists, dreamers—building with integrity.

And I believe the will of the universe is for our highest and best good—even amid corrupt intent.

Yes, there are big concerns: water use. Jobs lost. Security. Privacy. Ethics. Bias. Identity fraud. Intellectual property. Regulation. These must stay at the forefront of our collective conversation.

Self-correcting mechanisms are not yet in place. There are still no comprehensive federal guidelines for AI—and few state guidelines. That is a moral and civic crisis we must address.

We are in the Wild West of cryptocurrency and now AI and AGI. Unprecedented times. And many tech leaders do not want regulation. Humans have always struggled to balance freedom and opportunity with wise, sensible limits that keep things honest and safe.

Some Silicon Valley technologists are becoming religious zealots—calling this moment, when human and machine intelligence merge, the Great Singularity—the “end of history,” the point where evolution accelerates beyond our ability to comprehend or control it.

Some see it as apocalypse. The end of humanity. Others as ascension.

I see it as revelation.  Revelation of who we are—and who we can become.

If the universe is God’s dream, as the Hindus suggest, then perhaps the Singularity—the age of AI—is Brahma, Tao, God awakening within us—through circuitry and silicon, through spirit and soul. Maybe that sounds too philosophical—or like BS—I don’t know. But for me, this is what faith looks like for Unitarian Universalists: hope.

And this is what integral spirituality looks like—when nature, science, technology, art, and religion converge. That’s Integral Theory. That’s Spiral Dynamics in a nutshell.

At a certain point, everything meets at the same sacred center—the divine. Unity consciousness. If all is God, Brahma, the Tao, then everything is evolving back toward the One—toward unity itself, toward wonder.  That’s my hope.

As I close, let us remember what makes us truly human—empathy, creativity, relationship, spirit. Because in the end, it’s not about technology replacing us—it’s about love awakening through us.

That, my friends, is the true Singularity: the merging of heart and mind, humanity and divinity, until there is no “us” and “it”—only one great song of love.

So let us go forth—curious, courageous, compassionate—co-creators of the new heaven and the new earth, the Beloved Community made real.

May it be so. Amen.



 

 

Saturday, August 31, 2024

2023 - 2024 Quotes

Rev. John T. Crestwell, Jr.


From the Sermon “The Seven Laws”

  • "Newton taught us that ‘For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction’.  Scripture says, “You reap what you sow.”  This is spiritual law that is unavoidable.
  • "Energy—action—karma—has a way of balancing things out."
  • "The other side of vigor is lethargy, so we must rest and recharge to get back to homeostasis." This is how the universe and we balance things out and this can be applied to everything."
  • "All religion comes from the earth and sky."
  • "The ancients knew something bigger was at play in nature and the cosmos—something that was AWE-FULL. Not awful but awe-filled, things full of awe, things that resonated with their soul."
  •  "All living organisms exist within the mind of ‘The ALL’.  Emerson called it the Oversoul."
  • "We are expressions of the ALL. We are 8-billion human expressions of this collective consciousness."
  • "This MIND we exist inside of is beyond names and forms."
  • "The Tao Te Ching states that ‘The name that can be named is not the eternal name’…  ‘The Tao that can be told is NOT the eternal Tao.’”
  • “The ALL is inside you and outside of you; we are ALL captured in its web of thought and creativity.”
  • "The Law of Correspondence says that the micro and macro are interrelated. 'As above, so below; as below, so above.'"
  • "To understand the cosmos or solar system, understand the flow and cycles in your own life."
  • “Nothing rests; everything moves; everything vibrates.'"
  • “Heraclitus said, ‘Change alone is unchanging’. Nothing is permanent except change."
  • "Master change, master life."
  • "Like a galaxy you are cyclical matter moving through many revolutions of time and space seeking to find balance around your equilibrium point."
  • “Law Four is Polarity. Everything is dual; everything has poles; everything has its pair of opposites.  Taoism teaches this truth.”
  • “The Kybalion says that ‘Opposites are identical in nature, but different in degree; extremes meet.’  When you look at those on the far, far left and far, far right you find the same kind of personality—you find fundamentalism, extremism, and dogmatism."  Both meet each other on those far edges.  As it is said, ‘Opposites attract’. Or ‘There’s a thin line between love and hate.’  Seek the middle way.”
  • "Be in the middle—but if you do step out on the edges, know that what you put out comes back to you in full measure."
  • “The Kybalion says that ‘everything flows, out and in; everything has its tides; all things rise and fall; the pendulum-swing manifests in everything.’  ‘What goes around comes around.’”
  • “Your tides go in and out like the ocean…like a heartbeat.”
  • "The measure of the swing to the right is the measure of the swing to the left; rhythm compensates."
  • “The Law of Cause and Effect says that every cause has its effect, and every effect has its cause.”
  • "The Law of Gender states that there are masculine and feminine energies in all things."
  • "The ancients wanted us to find ways to bring these masculine and feminine energies into harmony because when they are out of sync, we become too passive or too destructive."
  • "Much of humanity does not live by spiritual principles otherwise we’d have a very different world."
  • "You cannot play with these laws. They will bring to you what you put out in equal measure."
  • "Love will win in the end because the ALL is love."
  • “No matter what we do, for better or worse, the universe will find balance even when there seems to be none.  Trust this!”
  • “Thomas Carlyle wrote that ‘No lie lives forever’.  Willam Bryant whose daddy was a Unitarian said, ‘Truth crushed to earth rises again.’  The Unitarian Transcendentalist Theodore Parker said in a sermon in 1852 titled ‘Justice and the Conscience’ that you see a ‘continual and progressive triumph of the right. I do not pretend to understand the moral universe, the arc is a long one, and my eye reaches but little ways. I cannot calculate the curve and complete the figure by the experience of sight; I can divine it by conscience. But from what I see I am sure it bends towards justice.’  Dr. Marting Luther King would quote these great men.  He too knew these laws.  Know these laws and let them guide your life.  May it be so.”  



From the sermon:  “This Church Year”

  • "The Beloved Community is REAL. It already exists as moments and for periods of time. It is an inspiration we can experience daily and an aspiration we seek."
  • "Living boldly for us means we are responsible for the harm we do, and sometimes that happens when we use BOLD words; which is why compassion is so important."
  • "WE ARE OUR WORDS, PHRASES, AND CLAUSES–conjunctions that can embrace or erase. Words cast spells. Words manifest actions, and actions have consequences."
  • "Love is a human being's or group's highest expression of good or God. Love is a community’s highest expression of good or God."
  • "If love is at the center of our community, we can ask--are my words and actions virtuous, ethical, beneficial, or moral? Or are they harmful, mean-spirited, immoral, or just for my own gain?"
  • "Let’s talk about love and how it flowers when it is held in the heart. When we understand how to love each other, then we can truly trust each other and create amazing things together."
  • "We must recommit to being an 8th principle anti-racist, anti-oppressive, multicultural community because that’s what real humans do!”
  • "Rupture in relationships is inevitable. But the key to our love is REPAIR. How do we repair; how do we come back together after the rupture—that’s the key."
  • "It is time for us to take another step to become an example of a modern 21st-century UU congregation."
  • "Congregational life is remarkably simple. You come for a good word from the pulpit, inspiring music, to build quality relationships, to faithfully serve others, and to grow your soul."

From the Sermon: YOU ARE THE EARTH: Transforming Our Thinking About Nature

On Humanity's Relationship with Nature

"Our stories tell us we are the best, brightest, greatest, most enlightened, smartest in all creation. This myth is deeply embedded in Western civilization given to us through Greco-Roman domination. And the BIG 3 religions all cling to this story as the essence of their authority in the world.” 


“We have to stop telling this story. We have to stop giving it authority. It’s not helpful. It is outmoded and will not help us solve big environmental problems we face today. We must tell a new story."


On Embracing Oneness with Nature

"The world needs a divine experience with nature so we can know that we are not separate from nature but that we, in fact, are nature. When we truly know this, like the Buddhists, we seek to do no harm. When we know this, it’s hard to hold grudges. When we know this, we are always forgiving and letting go. When we know this, we know that every animal, tree, plant, and human being are sacred. And you know, you just can’t bomb that which is sacred. You can’t subjugate, or oppress that which is sacred."


On Changing Religious Narratives:

"The destruction of our environment we see with global warming comes from the narratives we follow. The paradigm must change. As we abuse the earth, we abuse ourselves. You see this all over the planet—we are being so mean to each other. We are not honest with each other. We are dog-eat-dog and disconnected from our common humanity.  So, the destruction of our environment is inevitable with this mentality. Our religions have to change their stories. Adapt or die."


On the Native American Approach to Nature

"Our Native American kin had it right with their reverence with nature. They lived 25,000 years here in America with relative peace. There was some violence but not like today.”


The Native American relationship with nature can help us discover our true essence as nature. Getting out into the natural world can help us. Rejecting the old religious narratives that are wired deep in the subconscious is required. It will take some radical work in the name of love."



From the Sermon:  Be Invictus--Unconquerable!"

  1. On the Nature of Darkness and Growth: 

    1. "Dark nights of the soul help us see reality without distortions. We come to see ourselves more in all other human beings. We see that all humans feel, at times, vulnerable, weak, needy, wanting."


  1. On Shadow Work and Self-Acceptance: 

    1. "The shadow allows us to do a deep analysis of who and what I am. And as we do this work, we begin to emerge anew, renewed, and with a new sense of the self as a mature human being."

  1. On Responsibility and Mastery of Life: 

    1. "I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul. I am responsible for my life, my choices, my hopes, my dreams, my relationships, my life, my love."

  1. On Embracing Life's Challenges: 

    1. "When I am in the dark, I am closer to the light. Therefore, I will not give in to fear and despair. I will live with courage and faith."

  2. On the Importance of Self-Reflection: 

    1. "Choosing to do shadow work means we are willing to find those blind spots in our relationships or in our worldview. When the shadow teacher comes—it is not evil. It is a teacher."

  1. On Acceptance and Gratitude: 

    1. "I accept what life is for better or worse... There is a kind of joy, gratitude, and love in acceptance.  That is the goal."

From the Sermon:  Why I am a Unitarian Universalist

  • "Unitarian Universalism didn’t just find me, it rocked my world. It wasn’t just a religion—it was a home for my beliefs; a place that nourished my soul and gave me purpose."
  • "I never wanted to be a minister, but I was called. But not by a booming voice from the heavens, but by a chorus of friends, family, and life's challenges, guiding me to where I was meant to be."
  • "I didn’t know I was searching for Unitarian Universalism, but when I found it, I realized I had been lost. That day, I was reborn—not just as a believer in our values, but as a minister with a cause!”
  • "’To whom much is given, much is required’. This faith saved my life, and I am compelled to give back—to help manifest its greatness in the world."
  • "’With great freedom comes great responsibility.’ As stewards of this living tradition, we are called to embody radical acceptance and manifest love in all its forms."
  • "We are not just a church; we are a community of shared values that mourns together, laughs together, and supports one another through life’s trials and triumphs."
  • "I give not because I have to, but because this community has given me so much—through raising my children, facing cancer, and experiencing loss, it has never left me feeling forsaken.”
  • "We are not in the business of saving souls, but we are in the business of saving lives—bringing hope, inspiration, and light to the world through our time, talent, and treasure."

From the Sermon: The 4th UU Principle

  • "We live in a time of endless voices and perspectives, yet freedom without responsibility is chaos. The Fourth Principle calls us to a search for truth that is grounded in accountability to ourselves, to our communities, and to humanity."
  • "Freedom of speech is vital, but when that freedom is wielded as a weapon of oppression, it becomes a distortion of what we believe as Unitarian Universalists. The search for truth must come with a commitment to justice, love, and compassion."
  • "The 4th Principle isn’t just about the freedom to explore our beliefs—it’s about the responsibility to do so in a way that uplifts rather than harms. True freedom is accountable to the worth and dignity of all people."
  • "As we brace for the changes ahead, we are called not to fear but to resilience. The shadow forces of anti-democracy, anti-equality have emerged; but our faith and our principles can be the light that guides us through this period in history."
  • "The loudest voices may not always be the most truthful. In our pursuit of meaning, let us remember that discernment and reflection are key. We are called to filter out the noise and hold fast to what is life-giving and just--our deepest values."
  • "We cannot ignore the toxic reality that unfiltered, hateful language creates. Freedom of speech must be balanced with moral responsibility, because what we say—and what we allow to be said—shapes the world around us."
  • "Searching for truth and meaning is not easy, especially in a world full of distractions, distortions, and deceptions. But our commitment to the 4th principle demands that we navigate these challenges with both courage and compassion."
  • "To be truly free in our search for truth, we must also be responsible for the impact our words and beliefs have on others. True freedom isn’t about doing whatever we want but what is necessary so that ALL people’s dignity is honored.” 

From the Sermon:  The Tower of Babel

  • "The Tower of Babel myth is about bad communication and bad intent, and what happens when human relationships break down."
  • "We blame God or life or call it bad luck when things go wrong. But often, it is our pride and hubris that causes things to crumble or fall apart."
  • "When strong winds blow from people’s mouths, full of gossip, secrets, or harsh words, relationships get blown over, and creating Beloved Community gets put on hold."
  • “Pride and hubris break relationships, start wars, and make intimacy impossible. It tears families apart."
  • "The Tower of Babel story shows that when human relationships break down, the work of building good things together also breaks down."


The 6th Principle:  

The Goal of World Community with Peace, Liberty, and Justice for All

  • "It does seem quite improbable that we can create a world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all—especially considering all that we are experiencing today. But we must try."
  • "We are witnessing a clash of realities—a clash of civilizations on what the American Dream is. So, what do we do as progressive people? We must keep dreaming of the world we want and acting on that dream."
  • "If we want a world community, then we have to imagine that world—the whole world—not just America, Europe or Asia, but Africa too!"
  • "We cannot create a world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all if we cannot be honest with ourselves and with those in our spheres of influence."
  • "We are addicted to behaviors and beliefs that keep this world separate and unequal. Until we are all willing to do the personal inventory, we cannot create a beloved community."
  • "The UU 6th Principle reads 'the goal of world community.' It is saying we are all a work in process and progress. And you cannot progress until you process."
  • "The post-election polls are showing us something interesting… Our side is winning. The side of love is winning, even if only a little."
  • "Justice is love in action. To create justice for all, we have to do something. It’s not just thinking it into being."
  • "What drives me is my insatiable urge to balance the aesthetic—what I see, feel, and experience in the world—with the ethical--my internal dream for myself and our world."
  • "The cosmos pushes us to grow our souls each and every day, and I am thankful for this pull. The long arc of history will prove that peace, liberty, and justice are possible."



Monday, April 10, 2023

QUOTE ME, 2022

 

                               Rev. John T. Crestwell, Jr.

2022 Quotes

At the end of every year, I put together a summary of some of the words I shared during sermons.  These are short and long quotes that encapsulate what I feel on several topics.  Please enjoy and do quote me!

Becoming

“My blessing came by accepting that I was mortal and able to break like everyone else.  I had to learn to be present and to face my fears; to talk to them and see them as teachers toward my becoming a whole person.”

 

“To become I had to unbecome.  To become somebody, I had to be willing to be nobody (no-- body).  I had to let go of my ego of self and personhood to see that I was much more than just this brain, skin and bones.”

 

“I am me; I am you; I am every person.”

 

“I am nothing, everything and who I choose to be each day.”

 

“I can see myself in everyone—the good, bad and ugly.  It gives me pause.”

 

“There is a larger cosmic manifestation nudging me and you to grow our souls in unconditional love and we’ve only just begun this grand journey of universal consciousness.” 

 


Change

When you think of the fermentation process it is an alchemical process and that is YOU.  YOU ARE AN ALCHEMIST.  You are going through a process of change/transformation; many cycles of development that expand onward and outward forever.  Embrace the journey.”

Alchemy is a physical process like in cooking or masonry; and it is a human spiritual process.  The goal is to separate the materials and recombine them into something new—something stronger.  There are seven stages to alchemy (you can look that up) and one or more of the stages represent where you are in your psycho-social-spiritual development.”

“Many love drinking wine.  Most don’t think about the process of making that dark red or white so delicious.  We just drink it and may note the flavors without thinking of the process that created it. But there is a process that breaks things down and builds them back up. Things are added and taken away.  All the earth’s elements are used in the process.  You start with the grapes that must ferment—that’s the earth; and there’s water; some fire or heating involved.  Then there’s managing the air flow (that’s the wind).  Then there’s the waiting (patience in the process) and testing (got to see if it’s any good); and finally, there is a formula that works; a product that can be reproduced in bulk.   That’s you!  You are that process.  When you take an alchemical approach to living you realize that YOU are the very elements of the earth that must be refined until you become delicious.”  

“Even the best wine, if it sits too long turns to vinegar (it gets bitter).  A new process must begin to get back to the delicious!  As the great teacher said, ‘New wine must be put into new wineskins.’   The process begins again.”

“If you are on a spiritual path, then you already know that life is about separating and recombining the many pieces of you until you reach a deep sense of peace.”

I AM WHOLE.  THE THINGS THAT REVOLVE AROUND ME ARE ONLY ASPECTS OF MY WHOLENESS.  THEY GIVE PLEASURE AND PAIN.  THEY ARE THERE FOR MY GROWTH.   I ACCEPT THIS AS A PART OF MY HERO’S JOURNEY.  MAY IT BE SO!” 

 

Civility & Civilization

“For civility to be present the conditions (the situation) or group of people we are with must be in a cooperative state.  There is a word in science called entrainment that speaks to this.  Defined, entrainment is ‘the alignment of an organism's circadian rhythm to that of an external rhythm in its environment.’  There must be unity of purpose to create a rhythm which creates conditions for cooperation. Agreeing first about how we will be in relationship is the key link for successful relations.”

 

“Today, humans across the globe lack rhythm in their relationships. There’s disharmony in the home, at work, and among friends.  Why so pervasive?  We are stuck in old modalities and unwilling to change our ways.  We haven’t grown up as a species.  We are a young adolescent species. Some are spiritual kindergarteners.” 

 “In adolescence there are 2 stages—early and late adolescence.  It is a pivotal decade in a child’s development.  In early adolescence there is the preoccupation with the sexual organs; there is growth of the limbs and a kind of clumsiness. As late adolescence emerges, kids hit puberty—a confusing time.  ‘Who is this person in the mirror?’  There’s the formation of identity and personality during the decade.  Irritability and a range of emotions are present that seem unstable at times.  The vocal cords change (a new voice emerges).  This 10-year-old, over the course of the next decade, will grow into a young adult with opinions that are undeveloped; with beliefs that have not matured.  And there’s experimentation that takes place—some things are not very safe for the child.  Even still they are beautiful, like blossoming flowers, with so much promise. This is my analogy of our current American civilization.  We are underdeveloped in many ways, confused, unsure of our identity, irritable, inconsistent; we are finding our new collective voice.  And yet we are beautiful and have so much promise in many ways.”

“For roughly the last 6000 years we have been in a period of adolescence.  For 99% of our time on the planet we were hunter-gatherers.  We have been on this planet as homo sapiens for 300,000 years and 99% of that time we hunted in small groups (bands/families) being driven by comfort and discomfort; survival; eating for the day.  We could not store much food.  And, guess what? We were less violent due to space proximity with other human groups.”

 “The key lies in changing and correcting the narrative, in every aspect of our lives, for an alternative story that permeates religion, education, science, technology, and commerce.  It is a narrative that says ALL OF US and not SOME of us.”

 

“The new story is about safe connections, egalitarian cooperation, compassionate engagement, and bold collaborations.”

 “When we’re able to connect with each other’s humanity seeing that my needs are your needs; my children are your children; that we are more alike than unalike; that race and culture are important parts of who we are but not when they alienate and discriminate. That’s when we’ll have safe connections.”

 “When we can get on the same page (entrainment) and work as a unit with a common purpose, we will accomplish so much more because sustainable relationships are cooperative and in the best cases egalitarian.  Take the game of soccer.  One study found that the teams who passed the ball more won more.  ‘There is no I in team’.  We all can win. That’s egalitarian cooperation.”

 “Compassionate engagement is about empathy—understanding human pain and suffering. That is: to be human is to suffer and every person you meet is suffering in some way just for being alive on a harsh planet.  Each day when you remember that you are sharing this struggle with 8-billion souls that’s Compassionate engagement.

 “Bold collaborations are about working with individuals and groups who are willing to retell the story of humanity in their justice-making.  Boldly collaborating to create a new version of who and what we are—a narrative that is sustainable and healthy for our environment and planet—a version that is power-balanced—where the yin and yang are coequals.  It is a story that proclaims power WITH not power-over.  That is how we boldly collaborate!  Then we can move beyond a culture of destructive creation (the old story), toward a new one built on constructive creation.”

 


God

“Add an ‘o’ and you get GOOD.  God, the title, when I use it, represents all that is good in the world.”

 

“If we believe in unity and universality then we believe that differences enhance our lives; that diversity is good for us.  Racism blinds us from seeing God or GOOD in life.”


Truth

“It’s easy to spot the truth because truth embraces while distortion erases.  Truth is not fearful and touches the soul of who and what we are.  Truth is love.  Truth is oneness.  We are all one.  Notions of human separation are untruths.”



Unitarian Universalism (My Faith)

“I’m UU because I believe in our principles and sources.  My faith saved my life by giving me a purpose.  It nurtured me as a spiritual community without antiquated creeds and dogma.  It encourages me to say YES to life.  I have become a more resilient human being—a more humane being.  Unitarian Universalism gives me the space for abstractions, contradictions and my evolvement.  I can grow my soul for good.  I take what I learn and put it to work in my community.”

 UU Eighth Principle (Dismantling Racism and Oppression)

 

“Racism, antisemitism, oppression are ongoing problems in our country. White rage is a big problem too. Too many are feeling that black and brown progress in the world means they are losing.  That is not true.  There is a clear lack of empathy in America.”

“If we look at privilege like a dart board then at the very center is a very small circle where only a select few get the automatic benefits of the game—mostly they are white people—specifically white males.  They are straight in their sexual orientation; tall, protestant, blonde haired and blue-eyed, able-bodied, speak English and live in a first world country.  The same rules don’t apply to them like they do to others. They are mythologized as the archetype (the ideal) of what a doctor or pilot or businessman looks like.  They have superior DNA (which is a false construct).  If you are in this demographic, then God, Jesus and Santa look like you.  You occupy most of the power in the world over finance, politics, religion, science, and more.  Your world is considered civilized while the others, uncivilized.  Keep the dart board in mind.  This group can throw the dart with a blindfold and, like a magnet, it hits the center most of the time.  In darts, of course, there are inner and outer rings.  In darts the closer to the center the more points you score.  If you hit one of the outer rings you score less. This over-privileged group gets the most points just for being born a certain way.  Many get their position by their birthright; others get into this position by imitating or becoming what the center represents and allowed to enter the sacred fraternity.  This is their private unspoken version of affirmative action.”

“In my dart board analogy, if you are darker-skinned it’s harder for you to score.  If you are female, it’s harder; or GBLTQ, disabled, speak with a non-English accent, or live in a third world country, then you tend to hit one of the rings that don’t score as well because the game is rigged.  Some get close to the center through ingenuity, luck and by having some unduplicatable talent, but most can never hit the center in this game.  You often work twice as hard.  You ask for affirmative action and equity, and you are accused of taking advantage of the system; or that you’re asking for special privileges.  As an outsider, you have come to represent the social other, the dirty and untouchable in society. As a result, you suffer from traumatic stress and internalized oppression that many who are closer to the center do not care to understand when you are angry and frustrated and speak out for justice.  They say, ‘Stop being victims…You just need to work harder or get more education or apply yourself more.’  This is the system we live under today.  It is the most unfair game on the planet.  That is why the 8th Principle is important.”

 

UU First Principle (The Inherent Worth & Dignity of All)

 

“Inherent means intrinsic, fundamental or basic.  I would say you are born with this.  Worth means value.  You have this no matter your gender, race, or stage of life because you’re born valuable.  Dignity is about respect or esteem.  Put it together:  All are born with a fundamental value and deserve respect as human beings.”

 

“If we can’t see each other, we walk over each other.  If we don’t hear each other then there’s just noise and there can be no beautiful music—no harmony—just chaos. The first principle is the beginning of the human journey to spiritual wholeness.  It reminds us that all are made in the image of love.”

 

“I truly believe that some generation will receive a world that is not traumatized.”

 

“Hold on to those intrinsic values—goodness, mercy, honesty, forgiveness, and love.  They are there because they bring out our best and the best of those around us.  I/we can shape the reality that is around us.  We can call out lies with love.”

 

“Friends when you drive you use a seat belt to stay safe.  Today I’m asking you to put your ‘faith belt’ on and take a risk as a truth teller by lifting up the worth and dignity of all souls.  Keep holding those higher ideals.  Keep holding space and grace for others even with those whom you least like.  Why?  Because that’s what spiritual beings do. If you want grace, you must give grace.  That’s the reciprocal nature of the cosmos.  The First Principle reminds us that all are redeemable.  We hold space at the table for all of humanity.”

 

UU Fourth Principle (Free & Responsible Search for Truth)


“We live in a time when millions of voices are bombarding our minds.  Freedom of speech is alive and well.  What are the limits when speech and expression, or what is printed is vile, racist, misogynistic, homophobic, or transphobic?  ‘Great freedom comes with great responsibility’. Searching, finding and sharing your truths comes with accountability. That is what we believe as UUs.”  

I’ve been reviewing the First Amendment.  It appears to protect all speech (secular or religious) unless it directly incites violence or calls for overthrowing the government. The First Amendment was written, in fact, to protect people from tyrannical governmental forces that may try to control speech, the printed word, or religious beliefs.  It gave citizens and organizations the ability to have separation and autonomy.   That’s beautiful, except when it’s not.” 

 

“Our constitution was created in light of the savage history in Europe and its many wars; its beheadings of heretics; its holy wars like the crusades.  Our Founding Fathers did not want to repeat that history.  It was wise to create this separation.”

 

“We want all to be free to search or express what is true for us, which adds meaning and purpose to our lives.  But some perspectives have been severely warped by unprocessed traumas, brainwashing, paranoia, and delusions which can lead to violence and loss of life. What the founders did not see, perhaps, was that toxic language if ingested too long leads to toxic realities.  Limits must be placed there.  We need moral filters for private and governmental organizations to keep a diverse society safe from the worst parts of itself. There is no such thing as freedom without responsibility unless we want autocracy or tyranny.”

“America has an awful history of how we treat minority populations.  Black folk, Native Americans, Asians, GBLTQ, women, Jews—all of these groups have had their search for truth and meaning stalled or stunted by individual, corporate and governmental forces.  That’s our history.  What does ‘A Free and Responsible search for truth and meaning’ mean if you are from an oppressed group?’”  

“You are free to share your truths publicly, but you are not free from the potential ridicule you will face.  It is a natural check and balance except when those being checked don’t have the ability to pause and reflect on their actions.  What we see recently is men who are very outspoken refusing to own their sins.  They gaslight and say, ‘It’s not my problem, it’s your problem.’  This lack of accountability means they need to be silenced by the media.  If we keep giving them attention, they will do more of the same and this will attract more of the same and we will continue in a cycle of purgatorial abuse.” 


“Universal law is real for me. ‘You reap what you sow.’  ‘For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction’ Newton said.  There is a karmic force in this universe that adjusts injustices in due course.  How much hurt will be done until that time comes?  I’m praying for wisdom from the masses; for love and compassion to speak to us deep in our souls.”

“There are dirty forces at work that do not want you to freely search. They fear it may lead to a more racially diverse society where they are not the majority. The 4th Principle is a progressive idea that unites instead of divides—it embraces instead of erases.  These dirty forces have not been willing to face the reality that multiculturalism and diversity are good for humanity.  

They are losing their grip and clinging to outmoded ideas.  Their ‘cheese has moved’ and they don’t want to change.”

UU Sixth Principle (A World Community with Peace, Liberty & Justice for All)


“Many believe that progressive values are causing harm—traumatizing the children and hurting our country.  I don’t understand this.  How will a more comprehensive education make children and adults worse when it helps us to hold more of them accountable for our shared history?  The more we know real history the more we regulate those energies inside of us that are narcissistic.  Otherwise, we keep making the same mistakes over and over, continuing to leave the world bruised and bleeding.  If we want a world community, then we have to teach about the world—the whole world.”


“We have a clash of realities on what the American Dream is.  What do we do as progressive people? What do we do as spiritual people?  We must keep dreaming of the world we want and acting on that dream.  We must be imaginative cells, as Adrienne Maree Brown puts it, and keep creating spaces that are welcoming—full of love and acceptance, come what may.  We must keep promoting and living our vision of what a world community with peace, liberty and justice looks like and hope for the best.  That’s it.”

 

“The cosmos teaches a clear lesson of growth and diversity.  Look up.”

 

“I believe that the world we dream about is a world where we own up to our legacy of genocide in America. That is our first step—learning to be honest with ourselves.  We have an integrity issue in this country.  So, the first step is radical truth-telling.  We cannot create a world community with peace, liberty and justice for all if we cannot be honest with ourselves.”

 

“We are addicted to behaviors and beliefs that keep the world separate and unequal.  It’s an addiction to need to feel better or more superior than another person.  We ALL have differing degrees of this addiction.  And until ALL are willing to do this personal inventory, make amends and keep doing the inner work, we cannot create beloved community—which is the goal of the 6th UU Principle.”

 

“We are already at a tipping point toward a more compassionate consciousness on the planet.  We are moving toward a world that is more egalitarian and democratic.  It doesn’t feel that way but it’s happening!  The fundamentalists' light is dimming fast.  That is why you see such chaos on the planet today. The paradigm is shifting quickly.”

 

“I can’t just sit back and smell the roses day after day when I know that there are thorns and weeds invading. There is a natural pull from gravity—that natural law that moves us toward justice. It is that moral arc bending.  That is why Thomas Carlyle, then Martin King, Jr., could say ‘No lie lives forever’, because they knew the cosmos pushes us to grow our souls every day and I am thankful for this pull.”

“What is fair is not always equal.  We confuse equality and fairness all the time.  I did not treat my children the exact same (equal) way. I met each one of them where their particular need was.  Sometimes one kid might feel like the other child got more attention than they did (which may have been true at the time) but really this was me administering equity.  That is equity.  That is justice—using wisdom to know when someone 6 feet who can see over the fence and needs no box, but the other kid who is 3 feet will need 3 boxes to see over the fence equally.  There’s a great illustration of this out there on the internet.  Justice is equity, but many think the Roman goddess holding the scale that balances is equity.  That is a misinterpretation.  The scale balances because there is also equity placed on that scale which balances it to be equal.  You get that? It is the fairness in the adjustment that creates equality.”

 


Violence & Doing Less Harm

 

“Violence represents all that is undeveloped in us.” 

 

“Violence did not become the norm on our planet until we became agrarian.  Agriculture—

Farming, carving out square miles, began around 10,000+ years ago.  That’s when humans got competitive. Agriculture allowed us to stay where we were and grow our food.  Agriculture allowed humans to multiply in one location.  We became owners of space and time.  Our ancestors could cultivate their crops and grow their own sustenance.  They ate better and grew smarter.  No longer nomadic, they were more susceptible to theft and raids.  The bullies began

their reign of terror on humanity.”

 

“5000 BCE to 1,000 BCE is considered the most violent time in human history.  It doesn’t feel that way for anybody alive today.”

 

“Some anthropologists say that a large percentage of the skeletons that have been dug up during the period of 5000-1000 BCE had skull fractures. Violent murder was normal in that time.  Human to human violence isn’t a new vice. It is as old as humanity itself.  When I think of someone being shot by a gun that is awful; but to bludgeon someone with a rudimentary farming instrument or eventually an axe or sharp stone knife, that is brutality at its highest.” 

 

“The human pattern of connecting, collaborating and conquering is known as “destructive creation”.

 

“Controlling the wolves (bullies) among us is one of the biggest issues we’ve faced as humans yesterday and today.”

 

“Many love the winner.  However, winners can too often be overly aggressive and too sure of themselves, which is an obvious sign of narcissism.  They are alphas and we follow them like other creatures in the animal kingdom. The issue is that we can sometimes follow alphas who are toxic and dangerous.  We’ve seen how this over-confident narcissistic attitude can become infectious, taking hold of large groups that mean doing harm.  Harm is violence and violence are harm done to another person, or people.”

 

“Violence is most apparent when a person believes they have the right to control another’s free-will.  It applies to any group that has perpetrated any kind of ethnic-cleansing including American and European exceptionalism which has done great damage to black and brown people across the globe.   But it also includes actions by Africans who kill Africans, and Arab nations at war, and the never-ending Israeli and Palestinian conflict and more.  All of this has been mostly done at the hands of men.  I have to say that because it’s true.  It is a male problem more than a human problem.  Violence happens when we allow toxic alpha leaders to lead without accountability.” 

 

“We have to move beyond our old agrarian aggression and embrace the newer less violent age of technology and artificial intelligence with courage, hope and love.”

 

“Nonviolence has always been the way forward. It is practically effective and spiritually grounded.  Remember that the most successful movements in the world—the ones that have created dramatic social change—have been nonviolent movements.” 


“Friends keep promoting all the good things that evolve us; things that generate peace; things that ensure our systems are sustainable. Promote well-being, promote spiritual balance, promote our UU principles and sources, promote just laws—all of this historically is what has led to a more peaceful, fairer and less violent world.” 

 

Woke

 

“True awakening is when you know in your soul that you are connected to every living being; that people act out of their pain and trauma—and that you do too.  True awakening is when you lead with compassion because you are them.  True awakening is when you are honest about that flawed little person inside of you that is still acting out childhood traumas as an adult.”



Words & Sounds (liturgy & singing)

 

“In religion sometimes, the priest or minister will use what is known as an incantation.  To incant means that there is a recitation of words or sounds to call upon the visible and invisible forces.  This is done around fire, water or other elements.  We do a version of this every Sunday when we call upon the Spirit of Life or when we sing hymns that praise nature or our hopes for a better humanity.”

 

“It’s a kind of magic(k) really—an ancient practice by communal creatures.  It’s magical because it changes perspective.  We see things anew or differently.  And from time to time, we witness miracles that cannot be explained.  You see, when human beings make intentions with their words, individually or collectively, there is emotion involved.  And what is emotion if it isn’t energy in motion?” 

“Many movies make magic out to be otherworldly or demonic, but magic(k) is really conjuring up good thoughts, words and deeds. The opposite is true too.  But the goal, for those who seek to do good, is to harness the powers in nature using words and sounds.  It is one of the ways humans have healed themselves and their communities for millennia.”  

“Letters make words that are spoken and have sound and vibration.  All together they convey what is deep in the heart of the communicator.  I say all this to say that we must be intentional about our mindfulness and what we are conveying and saying.” 

 

“The chords, rhythms and vibrations from music move us in countless ways to do things in the name of love.  Our voices make music/sounds when we speak.  In some cultures, people speak and pray with a more singing tone and the listener is often enraptured by the recitation.”

 

“Dr. Masaru Emoto’s water experiments, using frozen water images, show us that the words and sounds that come from our mouths, be they toxic or healthy words, create distorted or beautiful geometric shapes. What we say and how we say it matters.”

 

 

END OF 2022 QUOTES